Personal Journey

You've carried this question
long enough to know
it matters.

Whether you're gay, bisexual, or transgender and working through what that means for your faith — or you love someone navigating that same path — this is a place for serious, Scripture-rooted exploration. No false choices. No easy answers.

Where are you?

The question is the same.
The starting point is different.

The Reformation Project exists for Christians who take Scripture seriously and are actively working through whether orthodox faith and the full affirmation of gay, bisexual, and transgender people are compatible. That journey looks different depending on where you're standing.

For you personally

You love God. You love the Bible. And you're gay, bisexual, or transgender.

You may have spent years wondering whether you can be both fully yourself and fully Christian. You've read the verses. You've prayed. You may have been told there's only one answer. The Reformation Project was built to show that serious, orthodox faith and the affirmation of who you are are not in conflict — and to walk with you through the biblical case for why.

For someone you love

A child. A sibling. A friend. Someone who just changed your world.

You're trying to hold your faith and your relationship together at the same time. That is not a small thing — and the theological question is real. One of the most important things you can do right now is understand what the Bible actually says about this, and what it doesn't. The resources here were made for exactly that work.

The Biblical Case

Three arguments to start with

The Reformation Project's Biblical Case examines ten theological arguments. If you're beginning this exploration, these three are the most foundational. They'll give you the framework for everything that follows.

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Argument 1 · Start here

Good fruit, bad fruit — what does Jesus actually say?

Jesus teaches in Matthew 7 that sound doctrine produces good fruit. Non-affirming theology has produced decades of documented harm in the lives of gay, bisexual, and transgender Christians. That fruit is not good — and that matters theologically.

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Argument 2

The Christian tradition has no position on sexual orientation.

In the ancient world, same-sex behavior was understood as a vice of excess — something that could tempt anyone, like gluttony. Same-sex attraction as the permanent orientation of a minority of people was not a concept that existed. Affirming Christians are not overturning tradition; until recently, there was no tradition to overturn.

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Argument 3

Celibacy is a gift. The Bible never makes it a mandate.

Scripture honors celibacy as a worthy calling — but it also makes clear that celibacy is a gift that not everyone possesses (1 Corinthians 7:7–9; Matthew 19:11). Requiring all gay Christians to remain celibate for life because of their orientation is at odds with the Bible's own teaching on the subject.

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From people on this journey

"I was seeking God's heart — diligently searching for biblical answers — when I found The Reformation Project. Their resources helped me so much on my journey to becoming fully affirming."

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"Through The Reformation Project's Leadership Development Cohort, I've learned how to engage with others in a way that reflects Christ's love. It's not about winning arguments; it's about building bridges and fostering understanding."

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Ettiene — South Africa

"After much prayer and honest conversations, our mother-daughter relationship was restored and now we have the deepest love for each other — with Jesus as our foundation."

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Seven weeks. One question. Your own pace.

Based on Matthew Vines' God and the Gay Christian, this free email series walks you through the biblical case from the very beginning — no prior theological background required.

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The Reformation Project trains ambassadors — Christians who have worked through these questions and are equipped to accompany others doing the same. They're not theologians or counselors; they're people who understand the journey from the inside.

A conversation with an ambassador is free, confidential, and without obligation.

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About the ambassador program

A community of people who've asked the same questions.

Ambassadors are trained by The Reformation Project to have informed, gracious theological conversations with individuals and families at any stage of this process — whether you're just beginning to ask questions or working toward a specific decision.

No obligation to agree with anything up front