For Pastors

This question is now part of your ministry — whether you asked for it or not.

Gay, bisexual, and transgender people are in your congregation — or they were, before they left. The theological questions are real, the pastoral stakes are high, and the standard talking points aren't adequate to either. The Reformation Project offers a serious, Scripture-grounded place to go deeper.

What this page is — and isn't

We are here as a resource regardless of your beliefs.

The Reformation Project is an affirming organization. We believe orthodox Christian faith and the full affirmation of monogamous, covenantal same-sex relationships are compatible.

But we also know that many pastors are in a gray area on this topic: carefully studying Scripture, weighing the pastoral implications, and trying to lead their congregations with both faithfulness and wisdom.

This page exists to support that work. Regardless of your beliefs, we're happy to be a resource for you.

Who participates

Pastors of non-affirming churches — many of whom have gay congregants, are watching families fracture, or are working through the theological questions with fresh eyes and high pastoral stakes.

What we ask of you

Only that you want to help your congregation become more welcoming and inclusive. You don't need to be fully affirming in your theology to participate.

How the program works

Participants engage the theological material alongside other pastors in similar positions. Like any professional pastoral gathering, what's shared in the room stays there.

Where pastors usually start

The question arrives in different ways.

Most pastors don't arrive at this question theoretically. Something specific brings them here. These are the most common starting points.

Situation one

A congregant — or their child — just came out.

You love this person. You've watched them grow up in your church, or they've trusted you with something deeply personal. And now the theological stakes of what you teach feel different than they did before. You're trying to figure out whether what you've always taught is the most faithful understanding of Scripture's teachings.

Situation two

You're re-examining your own theology.

You've encountered something — a book, an article, a podcast or video — that didn't land the way you expected. You have unanswered questions about an affirming theological position, and you want to engage the best affirming arguments, not straw-man versions of them.

Situation three

Your church is already divided, and you're trying to lead through it.

Some of your congregation is more conservative than you. Some are more progressive. You're trying to shepherd people through a conversation that feels like it has no safe middle ground, and you need more than platitudes to do it well.

The Biblical Case

Two arguments that tend to matter most to pastors.

The Reformation Project's Biblical Case examines ten theological arguments. These two are the most relevant starting points for someone approaching this question with a pastor's frame of reference — a concern for congregants and a serious commitment to the text.

Argument 1 · Start here

The pastoral question: what fruit is your theology producing?

In Matthew 7, Jesus teaches that good trees bear good fruit and bad trees bear bad fruit. That principle is relevant when it comes to discerning the soundness of our interpretation of Scripture — and the fruit of non-affirming theology has been profoundly harmful for gay Christians. This argument asks whether the outcomes you're watching in your congregation are consistent with the principle Jesus taught in Matthew 7.

Read the argument
Argument 2

The exegetical question: what tradition are we actually defending?

In the ancient world, same-sex behavior was understood as a vice of excess that might tempt anyone — not as the permanent sexual orientation of a minority of people. That concept did not exist. The claim that affirming theology overturns centuries of Christian tradition assumes a tradition on the specific questions of sexual orientation and gay Christians that wasn't there. This argument engages the historical and exegetical case directly.

Read the argument

The full Biblical Case covers ten arguments. All of them are available now, written for readers who take Scripture seriously and want to engage the arguments rather than the talking points.

Explore all ten arguments
Pastors in Process

A gathering for pastors doing serious pastoral work.

Pastors in Process is an ongoing program from The Reformation Project — a structured gathering for pastors of non-affirming churches who want to move the conversation on inclusion forward in their congregations.

You'll hear from pastors who have led their churches through this process. You'll learn about the theological, relational, and institutional dynamics involved — the real complexity that makes this work genuinely demanding. And you'll connect with other pastors navigating similar terrain.

As with any professional pastoral gathering, participant information is held in confidence. Attendees from non-affirming churches participate without concern — this is a professional norm, not a workaround.

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Do I need to be fully affirming to participate?
No. The purpose of the program is not to debate theology, but to help churches become more inclusive of gay, bisexual, and transgender people. As long as you're open to that goal, you're welcome — even if you're not yet certain about becoming fully affirming.
Will my name or church be kept private?
Yes. No identifying information about participants is shared publicly. What happens in the gathering stays there. Participants from non-affirming churches routinely attend without any risk to their positions.
I'm not sure I want my church to become affirming. Can I still come?
Yes. We're an affirming organization, and we'll be honest about that. But the goal of this gathering is to help you think — not to push you to a conclusion on a timeline that isn't yours. Many participants arrive uncertain and leave simply better equipped.
Is my church already affirming? Can I participate?
This program is specifically designed for pastors of churches that have not yet adopted affirming policies. If your church is already affirming, we'd love to connect you with other ways to get involved.
What does it cost?
Registration fees are kept intentionally low. Financial barriers to participation are something we actively work to minimize. Contact us if cost is a concern — we'll find a way.
Get in touch

Have a question? We're glad to talk.

If you have a theological question, a pastoral situation you're navigating, or you just want to understand what The Reformation Project does and how it works — reach out. We'll respond and connect you with someone who can help.

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Free Email Series

Work through the biblical case at your own pace.

This free seven-week email series — based on Matthew Vines' God and the Gay Christian — walks through the biblical case from the very beginning, written for people who take Scripture seriously.

Many pastors find it a useful way to engage the full argument carefully before deciding what to do next. It's available at no cost, delivered to your inbox on your own schedule.

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